Sunday, April 12, 2009

Baby and wedding?

We are getting married in June and have a 5 month old who is going to be our pretty little flower girl :o) We want another baby, and when our baby starts eating solids as well as breastfeeding in the next few months, it will become more likely that I will become pregnant thus meaning I could potentially be a couple of months pregnant when we get married. I was just wondering what people consider the pros/cons of this to be? I thought it would be nice as we could maybe announce the happy news at the wedding, but then I could be sick, won%26#039;t be able to have anything to drink (not too bothered about that bit though)... Has anyone got married whilst pregnant? Would you recommend/discourage it?

Baby and wedding?
Although waiting a few months would be ideal, it%26#039;s not unrealistic to plan a wedding and a pregnancy. My fiance%26#039;s child-hood best friend was 5 months pregnant at her wedding. She and her fiance were very much in love, but once found out they were having the baby, they pushed up the wedding date. The cons: emotional, skin problems (she had REAL BAD acne at the time), stress of planning a wedding %26amp; baby (but at least you%26#039;ve gone through the baby part before), a ton of dress fittings and alterations, ect... The pros: You are the up-most center of attention (bride %26amp; mother-to-be), can curb those cravings with amazing food %26amp; desert, you and your hubby will feel a much closer bond the day of your wedding, and finally your child can see the great pics of your wedding day with him/her in you belly :) Whatever you decide: plan carefully, take deep breaths, and have a great time!!
Reply:Stop overthinking this whole thing. Let nature takes it course and deal with it when and if it comes. Your going to stress yourself out.
Reply:I%26#039;d wait til the wedding is over and your daughter is just a couple of months older and settled in to her new routine of being weaned on to solids and your body has time to get over being pregnant and breastfeeding from the first baby, having a wedding and looking after a child is exhausting enough without being pregnant as well. June is only 4 months away, just get loads of practise in making babies and wait til after the wedding, have a %26quot;honeymoon baby%26quot;.
Reply:If you%26#039;re getting married in June, what%26#039;s the harm in putting off the next pregnancy a couple months? You%26#039;re right, you could be dealing with morning sickness and exhaustion. You shouldn%26#039;t have to worry about wedding arrangements and a pregnancy at the same time.





That being said, you certainly wouldn%26#039;t be the first bride to do it!
Reply:I would recommend not getting pregnant until after you are married. You are setting a bad example. You shouldn%26#039;t have kids just to %26quot;announce the happy news at the wedding,%26quot; people already probably think you are a hoochie.
Reply:I say wait enjoy your wedding it Will only happy once in your life hopefully. I than after the wedding start trying that way you can have your wedding be about just getting married not being pregnant too.
Reply:I would recommend waiting to get pregnant until after your wedding..You only have 4 months away so that way you wont get sick/sluggish/hormonal at your wedding.. Announcing a baby at a wedding sounds great, but don%26#039;t you want to enjoy yourself while at your wedding? I know I would want to..I wouldn%26#039;t want to be sick if I was at my wedding because I was pregnant..I would wait and enjoy yourself during your big day..You only get one day to get married, but you can easily get pregnant any day...Good Luck and Congratulations!
Reply:I don%26#039;t think it matters at all. The biggest problem will be getting an appropriate dress for the wedding. You won%26#039;t have any idea how big you%26#039;ll be so you%26#039;ll pretty much have to wait until the last minute to get a dress that fits. Good luck.
Reply:Weddings are very expensive and time consuming in most cases. I dont know if you are having a tiny little backyard gathering or a full on wedding, but in either case, the wedding should be special in its own right, without the addition of %26quot;i am pregnant%26quot;. As great of an idea it is to announce a pregnancy at a wedding you are really only taking away from your own enjoyment and your own special day.





No woman would chose to be pregnant on her wedding day, usually in those cases the pregnancy is accidental. Also, why not enjoy your baby a little bit more, wait until the baby turns atleast 1 years old to start trying for another one.





I really do not see the necessity of you planning a pregnancy right before your wedding. Enjoy your wedding just for what it is, for it (should) only happen once in your lfe
Reply:Id say wait. Its not long at all until you get married. It will fly by. Youll feel better at the wedding too. No feelin sick and such. Prolly feel %26quot;prettier%26quot; in your dress as well.
Reply:Your getting married in a hot month so why add the discomfort of lugging around pregnancy weight. Not to mention your body could change so much that you would have such a hard time knowing if your dress would fit. I can%26#039;t imagine why you couldn%26#039;t wait till after the wedding. Nothing says classy like trying to get knocked up as many times as you can before you walk down the aisle.



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